Monday, January 26, 2009

Getting ready..


We recently had an answered prayer. This sweet baby was wrong way round (or right side up - if you think about it) until just a couple of weeks ago. I've been blessed to have traditional deliveries and never a baby in breech position. I am told that it is best to deliver when the baby is in position to dive on out. A recent ob appointment included an ultrasound that revealed that he had finally gotten into vertex position - good boy!! The doctor told me that probably explained the relentless two-day headache that I had the week of the ultrasound.

There are still a few days before the due date, but I am told that he is doing great and can come at anytime. I don't have a history of delivering early, though. Even despite these strong, yet irregular contractions, I am not thinking that it is "go time" just yet.
note to self: don't mention contractions that don't result in a baby to anyone who may be babysitting the other children while their sibling is born because it will result in the "are you still having contractions?" phone calls and e-mails on a regular basis. Oh, scratch that. We love the attention.

In addition to usual delivery prayers for baby, the pregnancy prayer intention now is that I deliver with a midwife. Since I last delivered the office policy has changed.. sigh. If I deliver on a Monday-Friday between 7-5 then a midwife will catch the baby. If I deliver on a night or weekend, then a doctor will attend. My first two deliveries were at a different practice with doctors and they were quite um.. medicalized. The last three deliveries were with midwives, using a birthing chair, no epidural, and no incisions of any sort thankyouverymuch. Yeah, I think I would like to deliver with a midwife again
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This is the first baby I will have carried to term in nearly five years. Considering that our first five children arrived within 6 1/2 years, I feel a bit out of practice. Much of the baby gear has been given away in the past year, thinking that my child bearing years were coming to an end. It's good, though. We really don't need lots of gear with so many arms to hold this little one and so many hearts to share our days with him.

My energy levels have been erratic with this pregnancy. The nesting has been slow-going, but things are getting done. The car seat was brought out of storage, the padding freshly laundered and reattached with all of the correct snaps and buckles by me without requiring assistance from Daddy! (Really - that was a small victory.) The diapers are stocked, the baby outfits are hanging in the closet and my hospital bag is packed by the door. The important things are done.

I cannot even begin to say how thankful I have been for the help given to me by our children throughout this pregnancy. They have all been eager to help out with keeping our home going. Julian has been tremendous. He made all of our Christmas fudge by himself this year! He often cheerfully makes dinner for his siblings or Daddy when he gets home late and Mom is exhausted. Timothy has been navigating his way around the kitchen these days, too. Not to forget that Timothy has become a master laundry folder of late, too. It is so easy to get behind on laundry when washing for eight people, but with everyone's help, we are relatively {{{amazingly!}}} caught up.

I am closing this yesterthought with the twenty week 4D ultrasound image of our newest Sweet Treasure. We have never had a 4d scan before. I was told that it is a bonus for the the level 2 ultrasound that is offered to moms who are over 35. Isn't he cute? We cannot wait to meet him! I don't think our children could be more excited, either. Hugs and kisses come in pairs for me these days. One for me and one for the baby.



Thank you for stopping by!

Top photo credit:
Pier-Jérôme - I asked him if he could see the baby in the camera screen. Yes, he could. I did not think to ask if he could see my head. Strictly a belly shot from earlier this month.

Wednesday, December 17, 2008

Bold/Unbold meme

Nothing like a meme to get me out of a bloggy lull. By the time I get a few minutes to compose a thought, it is usually late at night. Late night blogging while 8 months pregnant doesn't usually allow for coherent thoughts. This easy meme only required enough brain cells to bold and unbold. Thanks Karen for sharing this meme.

1. Started your own blog

2. Slept under the stars
3. Played in a band
4. Visited Hawaii
5. Watched a meteor shower
6. Given more than you can afford to charity
7. Been to Disneyland (&DisneyWorld)
8. Climbed a mountain - a few, in fact
9. Held a praying mantis
10. Sang a solo
11. Bungee jumped - does jumping off a cliff on our honeymoon in Jamaica count? I mustabeen nuts!
12. Visited Paris - I wish....
13. Watched a lightning storm at sea
14. Taught yourself an art from scratch
15. Adopted a child - no, but I was adopted at age nine.
16. Had food poisoning - thankfully, no.
17. Walked to the top of the Statue of Liberty
18. Grown your own vegetables
19. Seen the Mona Lisa in France
20. Slept on an overnight train
21. Had a pillow fight
22. Hitch hiked
23. Taken a sick day when you’re not ill
24. Built a snow fort

25. Held a lamb
26. Gone skinny dipping
27. Run a Marathon
28. Ridden in a gondola in Venice
29. Seen a total eclipse
30. Watched a sunrise or sunset
31. Hit a home run
32. Been on a cruise
33. Seen Niagara Falls in person
34. Visited the birthplace of your ancestors
35. Seen an Amish community
36. Taught yourself a new language
37. Had enough money to be truly satisfied
38. Seen the Leaning Tower of Pisa in person
39. Gone rock climbing
40. Seen Michelangelo's David
41. Sung karaoke - with friends in front of strangers
42. Seen Old Faithful geyser erupt
43. Bought a stranger a meal at a restaurant - no, but we did pay the toll for the driver behind us before.
44. Visited Africa
45. Walked on a beach by moonlight
46. Been transported in an ambulance
47. Had your portrait painted
48. Gone deep sea fishing
49. Seen the Sistine Chapel in person
50. Been to the top of the Eiffel Tower in Paris
51. Gone scuba diving or snorkeling
52. Kissed in the rain
53. Played in the mud
54. Gone to a drive-in theater
55. Been in a movie
56. Visited the Great Wall of China
57. Started a business
58. Taken a martial arts class
59. Visited Russia
60. Served at a soup kitchen
61. Sold Girl Scout Cookies
62. Gone whale watching
63. Got flowers for no reason
64. Donated blood, platelets or plasma
65. Gone sky diving
66. Visited a Nazi Concentration Camp
67. Bounced a check - overdraft protection is a good thing
68. Flown in a helicopter
69. Saved a favorite childhood toy
70. Visited the Lincoln Memorial

71. Eaten Caviar
72. Pieced a quilt
73. Stood in Times Square
74. Toured the Everglades
75. Been fired from a job
76. Seen the Changing of the Guards in London
77. Broken a bone - last year on Oct. 27.
78. Been on a speeding motorcycle
79. Seen the Grand Canyon in person
80. Published a book
81. Visited the Vatican
82. Bought a brand new car - my very first car was purchased new by my parents - a 1987 Chevy Cavalier - never had a brand new one since.
83. Walked in Jerusalem
84. Had your picture in the newspaper
85. Read the entire Bible - not the entire bible, but I read Acts through Jude during my time in R.C.I.A.
86. Visited the White House
87. Killed and prepared an animal for eating
88. Had chickenpox - not sure? I think so.
89. Saved someone’s life
90. Sat on a jury
91. Met someone famous - The ones I remember are: Ted Kennedy 1980, Walter Mondale 1984, Ric Ocasek 1987 & 2005, Elliot Easton 1987, Benjamin Orr (may he rest in peace)1987, Greg Hawkes 1987 - all from The Cars (my favorite band), The Cowboy Junkies 2001 (another band), Kevin McHale 1987 (Boston Celtics), Tama Janowitz 1988, George Michael (not the singer) 1994, Ted Koppel 1995, Tomie de Paola 2006, Scott Hahn 2004, and last but by no means least, Danielle Bean 2007 - how's that for an eclectic mix of brushes with greatness! Some I would be delighted to meet again and some, well.. once is enough.
92. Joined a book club
93. Lost a loved one

94. Had a baby - '97, '99, '00, '02, '04 and another one in the very near future!

95. Seen the Alamo in person
96. Swam in the Great Salt Lake - not swam in, but my sister and I rode a water trike on top of Great Salt Lake - on the water counts, right?
97. Been involved in a law suit
98. Owned a cell phone
99. Been stung by a bee - on my finger while driving, owwweeee!
100. Read an entire book in one day

Thursday, November 13, 2008

Thoughts on Thankful Thursday

I have been rather quiet in cyberspace. Taking it all in and reflecting... and trying not to get depressed about the current state of our government.
When I cast my ballot last Tuesday, I did not consider my vote support for a particular candidate as I did not vote for either candidate in the primary and I could not embrace either candidate's platform in it's entirety. I simply felt that I was voting against the culture of death. It is so easy to feel absolutely defeated. We live in a land where more than 50% of the people do not make the sanctity of human life the first priority. In fact, there are close family members who are practicing catholics
and fellow parishoners who do not prioritize the sanctity of human life.

It is especially confusing to our children.
Right now my belly is huge with their little brother waiting to be born and join them in the new year. It is so disturbing to them to witness a baby growing and then know that there are doctors willing abort babies and that our newly elected president thinks that it is okay, even at this late stage.

Devastingly Unthinkable!

Even with such a bleak looking future for the unborn, I found a few words of consolation and hope online. First, there was this hopeful post at the forum.
Next, I found some wise words at Faith and Family Live.
Father Frank at Priests for Life encourages us not to give up.
Finally, my greatest hope and encouragement came from this quote posted at this sweet blog.
I am praying for hearts to soften and the Culture of Life to finally be embraced, especially by our newly elected president. With God, all things are possible!

I could end this there, but since this blog has been abandoned for so long, and it is Thankful Thursday, I must include some thankful thoughts:


We have a baby who has been growing steadily for the past twenty eight weeks who already has captured the hearts of every member of his family


We have a little girl with a new haircut - no more tangles, no more tears

We have a sweet snuggly blondie boy who loves learning to read (here he is listening and reading along while curled up in my "c" pillow - a pregnancy comfort)

We have a charming boy who is cheerful, content and an exceptionally hard worker

We have a bright, clever boy who delights in promptly doing his lessons well, setting a nice tone for each day and a very good example to his siblings

We have a helpful and wise boy who is someone we can always count on

We have a sturdy roof over our head, clean clothes on our back, healthy food to eat, good books on our shelves, a place to worship and weekly reception of the Eucharist. We are thankful.

Friday, July 25, 2008

Dawn posted this yesterday. I am jumping in.

1. What were you doing 10 years ago?

I was home with our firstborn. He was eleven months old. I was newly pregnant with our second son, but I had no idea at this time ten years ago. I loved being home and being a mom. I still do!

2. What are 5 things on my to-do list for today:

  • Swim Lessons
  • Shopping/Errands
  • Tidy upstairs rooms
  • Laundry
  • Make the bunkbeds with the sheets laundered last night

3. Snacks I enjoy:

  • Hummus and Pita
  • Pizzelles with Nutella
  • White Mocha and Biscotti
  • Celery, Carrots and Blue Cheese
  • Italian Bread with olive oil and fresh parmesan
  • Tea with Madeleines

4. Things I would do if I were a billionaire:

  • Donate to missions/worthy apostolates, provide for extended family and set up trusts for the future
  • Build a home that is just spacious enough for us and guests - family closet with multiple washers and a library would absolutely be included
  • Travel the world with my family- Europe first!
  • Buy a few vehicles - one for family, an eco-conscious vehicle for quick errands and an RV to travel the country.

5. Places I have lived:

  • NH
  • Massachusetts
  • California
  • Maryland

And who am I tagging?

You!

Thursday, July 24, 2008

One Word Meme

late to the party..
onewordsometimesdoesn'twork

1. Where is your cell phone? charging

2. Your significant other? Beloved
3. Your hair? highlighted
4. Your mother? content
5. Your father? missed
6. Your favorite thing? books
7. Your dream last night? forgotten
8. Your favorite drink? whitemocha
9. Your dream/goal? Heaven
10. The room you’re in? Familyroom
11. Your church? St.JosephCatholicChurch
12. Your fear? loss
13. Where do you want to be in 6 years? home
14. Where were you last night? home
15. What you’re not? alone
16. Muffins? carrot
17. One of your wish list items? sling
18. Where you grew up? Mass/NH
19. The last thing you did? Kiss (kidsnightnight)
20. What are you wearing? t-dress
21. Your TV? noisy
22. Your pets? snuggly
23. Your computer? laptop
24. Your life? Blessed
25. Your mood? hopeful
26. Missing someone? Dad
27. Your car? MPV
28. Something you’re not wearing? shoes
29. Favorite store? Nordstrom
30. Your summer? relaxed
31. Love someone? AllMyHeart
32. Your favorite color? periwinkle
33. Last time you laughed? today
34. Last time you cried? ultrasound(rejoicing!)
35. Who will re -post this? playedout?

Saturday, April 12, 2008

Spring arrived this week!

On Thursday, Dawn shared that it was going to be 70 degrees. I followed her lead and after our weekly visit to the library, we landed at the park.

This was a long time coming (was it ever!), and the scene was rather familiar.

Though this time, patches of snow remained. Here's hoping that the impending rain will do away with the cold, white stuff once and for all this year!

We climbed up high and jumped off!


We had fun swinging
and hanging out

and sliding



and playing with our friends!










Happy Spring!

Tuesday, April 01, 2008

catching up

Hello out there in bloggyland!
Do you write posts in your head.. say when you are in the shower or making your bed.. then get distracted and never post them? I do.
Do you have a dozen or so unfinished posts in your draft folder and by the time you return to finish them the information is not really relevant? I do.
I cannot promise that I have re-entered the blogosphere for good, or if this is just another cybervacation.

Since I last posted..

We prepared our hearts in Advent celebrated Christmas
rung in the new year (quietly)

celebrated three birthdays.. two at the same time because, well, two of us are 19 hours apart.


and one of them three times over.. because well, that is what we do around here. One celebration on the actual birthdate. One birthday lunch with Nana and always a weekend celebration with Memere et Pepere.
We journeyed through those 40 days of lent and joyously celebrated Easter.


It was all good.

Since I last posted.. I gained my "footing" again.
The crutches went into storage.. hopefully for good.


Since I last posted, our family has adjusted to a major schedule change for work.
I'm still adjusting. I think we all are.


Since I last posted, I became very quiet online. I have no idea why. I lost my "voice" to leave comments on other blogs or share a thought at the forum.
I did pra
y for all of the intentions, but I just couldn't find my fingers to type any responses.

Since I last posted, I gained new perspectives.
I don't know.. but I think I came a bit closer to conquering some of my struggles.
Oh, just little things like perfectionism and measuring myself with other's yardsticks.
I am learning that there are an abundance of graces available each and every day.
The key is learning to RELY on those GRACES.. each and every day.


Other than Holy Mass and the grocery store, I have been a homebody.
This wintery winter took hold of me and has hastened to let go.
I am anticipating the sweetness of spring more this year than ever. Are you?



I hope this post has found you well. Thank you for stopping by!
Peace and all good to you and your dear ones.